Update on My issue - wife called me and let me know that she has submitted the disolution of marraige papers from her end to the attorney. She said she has my papers in her hand and will give it to me. She said she was not in a haste to have this done. She was very emotional and upset saying that this marraige has no hopes. I tried to convince her by saying there is still hope if we both agree to make this work by therapy and other means. I also mentioned that i went to a therapist and gave her the case stidy which explained the above situation published above post. She was quite emotional and told me she is not going to be happy in this relationship or outside if this. I challenged her if divorce was the right choice. She said at least that her sufferings may reduce to some extent by giving me divorce. She also asked how i was managing and if i plan ti stay there or move away from the city and i told her that i have not decided anything for now. So conversations went on quite a bit and me trying to convince her to give it more thought although i did assure her that i dont want to be with an unhappy wife. Then at one point i told her to move forward and we disconnected. She called me back with emotional feelings and i stopped her and told if she loves me. She said she does but it doesnt matter. Asked her if she trusts me. She said no and hung up She read the case study and said its good for my future marraige and said ours is not fixable. Late night she sent me a broken heart article link - https://herway.net/love/this-is-what-she-turned-into-after-you-broke-her/
I read and told i apologise if i had hurt her. Not sure how much time i have and how i need to deal.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)