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Her current thing (Besides finding reasons to comment/reach out to me multiple times a day) is asking if she still gets a birthday present.

I think she does - I had planned on buying her something about two months ago (When we were still nominally together) and that plans feel through. But it was something that was ear marked for her, so I suppose that's reasonable. And I don't want to come off as punitive.


OMG! Reasonable? Punitive? Are you serious? She left you and is with another man......and has the audacity to ask if she still gets presents? mad Reasonable my a$$. Grow some b@lls. Tell her, he11 no, she doesn't get a birthday present! What is wrong with you men? Stop being such a wuss.

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On the other hand, she messaged me earlier and said she remembered that one of our climbing ropes was a wedding present. I ignored her. But I suspect she'll press the issue. I suppose if she does I could ask her if she's like me to cut it in half.


That's a little better.


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