It's not control over your sitch it is control over your life. ACC and LH taught me a lot about this. Your stability and comfort has been ripped from you so grab at anything to try to stabilize yourself. That means trying to rationalize, analyze and think about/strategize what you did wrong.
You will never know the answer. I read on this board once that there are many things in life that happen to good people all the time that they never get answers for......why should you be any different? You have to accept and move on.
Easier said than done
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That sound familiar to what your wife did?
My W was not a stay at home mom but I think by moving jobs she got exposed to different co-workers who opened up her eyes to a new lifestyle that she never really was exposed to before. TBH she probably had the feelings they just enabled her to make it happen. It was the perfect storm most of these ladies are D, or unhappy in their MR's and this pushed her over the edge.
Even with this happening her thoughts were there......anyone who is happy in a MR will not do this so these enablers are not the reason. It was hard for me to accept at first but now I do. I played a role.
