Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts 3

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Yeah. She's a bit of a mess.
From stories like yours it sounds like this is more common than not though.

I mean she seriously told me about OM and asked if we could still climb together in nearly the same sentence.

And she's mentioned a few times that she thought we'd still be hiking, climbing etc..
She apparently thought she could move out of a 11 year R, immediately start sleeping with another man, jump into a relationship there, and still cherry pick the parts of our R that she wanted.

I don't know if she thought I was so desperate that I'd take any crumbs she threw, or if she seriously just doesn't grasp the seriousness of what she has done.