Back in the day, my W thought I was dating other people and sleeping around - which I wasn't. I didn't respond well to it and basically caved into her temp check, which I regretted later.
I wish I had just said that I was moving on with my life and doing things that mattered to me - which she would've interpreted that I was F#$@king around town anyway. I wish I had cared less at that point and just been more firm.
But by going NC/dark, I just removed myself as an option for her. But, what audacity of them to ask if you're dating or messing around, it's bananas.
