So yesterday I meet her to sign an update to our prenumpt. She seemed exhausted and was very down and stressed. I validated, but didn't inquire more.
She as also clearly fishing to know what my plans afterward where (I deflected with an entertaining story, but didn't answer).
I'm pretty pleased with how I handled it.
Maika's advice is also spot on. I know that she is still trying to work things out with OM, so she clearly isn't ready to meet me terms to even discuss recon.
She may be having doubts, but I'm apparently plan B in her mind - or she wants to make sure I can be.
Today she conveniently tagged me in a 3 year old memory (on Facebook) of one of our foster dogs. She clearly wants to keep the hooks in, but not actually change anything right now.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
