I will look up the Nice Guy Syndrome. It sounds like you might be able to figure it out by thinking about the name, but something tells me there is more to it than that.
The term comes from the book "No More Mister Nice Guy" and the thrust of the book is that guys that have an outward appearance of being super nice are often very passive/ aggressive and selfishly motivated. On overwhelming number of guys that end up on these forums are very much these "nice guys" so there's something about NGS that really wears a marriage out over time. Anyway I would suggest that you not just "look it up on the internet" but buy the book and read it. Also be sure to read Michele's books if you haven't already (DR at a minimum) as a LOT of people come here asking questions that are clearly answered in her books.
