I completely understand how you feel. Her behavior bothers me a little, but what really bothers me is that her behavior bothers me a little.

Like you, I have to keep reminding myself "I deserve way better than x gave." And I find I am enjoying the independance, the GAL, the stability of life now.

My kids are undergoing a lot of turmoil right now. I'm doing everything I can to help them through it, but part of my journey is to get over my W blowing up our family, and dumping this burden on my kids.

Anyway, I just wanted to remind you know you're not alone. You'll get through this. How are things with that guy you were dating?


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17