"Nevertheless, taking them to the porch and acting nice would be better than staying in the van and acting passive aggressive"

"I need to stop and validate regardless. Sometimes I'm my own worst enemy when talking rather than just validating and shutting my mouth."

Yes yes and yes. You know what to do. You have been reading. Now its time for actively applying what you already know.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.