Sorry, still waiting on my copy of DB to arrive at my library for pick up. What does this mean?
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Stop being super LBS and become super STATE.
It just feels so counterintuitive to not show interest in her right now. I worry that will just push her closer to the OM.
Also, someone above talked about being more alpha. That makes sense, but hard to do. I am working out much more. But time is very limited. Because of my wife's and my work schedules, the only free time that's possible is on weeknights after the kids go to bed and weekend afternoons, which we try to reserve for some family time with the kids.
Totally open to some ideas for how to be more "alpha..." (which is very un-alpha to ask, I know).