Your W is on her way down. Please don't get in the way of her fall. It's her job to pick herself up and claw herself out of the mess she has created.
It was her choice to sign a lease. You wasn't included in on that decision. The journey she's on now is hers alone. I know you want to rescue her, but you will only prolong her getting help and healthy.
She got fired because of a choice she made. She knew the rules.
She decided to leave her family.
You see all the parallels. Everything has been her decisions, let her live and learn from her CHOICES.
You are doing the right things. You are being a light tower. A light tower doesn't move. It just beacons. All the boats must come in it's direction. You are being the rock for your children. Continue to be that tower and dont you move towards her or reach for her until she comes back to you remorseful and committed to doing the work necessary to creating a great M and R between the two of you.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
