she has enough money to cover the 180 herself but chose not to. She used joint funds from a joint account. Additionally, she is still covered on my insurance. She could have used that and not had to pay a thing and I might never have known she was there. Instead, she chose to pay out of pocket with "our" (my) money knowing id see the transaction. I feel like she is looking for me to reach out and break the silence
I don't think so. If she wanted to communicate with you then she would do it directly. There's only one reason she is playing games like this- because she wants to punish you. I am with Juju, just maintain radio silence. Keep in mind that SHE left without warning, that is not the action of someone that wants to be pursued. She wants the opposite in fact- she wants to be left alone.
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If I ignore it she for sure gets even more pissed than she already is and who knows what she does next. This is a tough choice, I feel like I lose either way
Go way back and read your very first post from 2015, and remind yourself what all the pursuit and begging and pleading got you. It would be the same this time. Leave her alone, it is for the best.
