And.... W just called. She just got fired from her bartending job. I was the first person she called. Her mood changed pretty drastically in the 5 minutes we were on the phone. At first, I think she was in shock, just talking normally and kind of laughing about it. Then she mentioned the fact that she just signed a year lease at her new place, and her whole demeanor changed. Shaky voice and what not. Then she said she had to get off the phone because she wasn't feeling well. I hate to say it, but I'm happy as hell. That job was the whole catalyst of the situation we are in. Hoping this helps shake her out of the fog...
mtb, I've followed your sitch from the beginning. Your WW seemed more wayward than any I've heard of before. I think this might be the trigger to clear the fog. That and now being on the hook for a year lease. The question is, are you open to letting her come back? No one would blame you if the answer was "no way!"
Did she say why she got fired? I remember there was some drug use suspected, if not outright known. Was her drug usage causing her to become erratic in her work ethic? Not showing up for shifts, etc?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
