Thabks AS. I agree, Maika is dropping truth and knowledge. I understand exactly what you guys are saying.
As far as the disagreement between juju and maika on what to do; she has enough money to cover the 180 herself but chose not to. She used joint funds from a joint account. Additionally, she is still covered on my insurance. She could have used that and not had to pay a thing and I might never have known she was there. Instead, she chose to pay out of pocket with "our" (my) money knowing id see the transaction. I feel like she is looking for me to reach out and break the silence, either so she can open up comms or so she can feel perused or feel like I gave in first. I dont know, though. There might be another reason.
If I ignore it she for sure gets even more pissed than she already is and who knows what she does next. This is a tough choice, I feel like I lose either way