Husband is in a serious MLC... lost weight, started cycling, drinking, stopped attending church, has had a change of spiritual beliefs... says there is no God! He dresses different...tells me that he wants to out more with friends on his own...the list of changes is endless... who is this man and what did the aliens do with my husbands body.... Honestly it feels like a completely different alien being just sleeps next to me.
Yeah that does sound like MLC. Post here because you'll get more activity at first, but you might want to read through threads and resources on the MLC forum as well.
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We went for counseling and stuck it out..., challenging but much better than a divorce.
What issues were discussed and resolved in counseling? Have any of those issues returned since then?
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I've read what some of you experts have been doing and I have done the exact opposite. Pleading, begging, trying to reason and understand... being pathetic basically.
Don't beat yourself up, most of us did the same before finding DB'ing. Read DB or DR, get really familiar with Sandi's rules, and settle in for the long haul! You turned things around once before so you already know it's possible no matter how hopeless it may seem right now.
