If you'll recall, she had changed plans last minute for her to go out on her own about 3 hours away to see her nephew being born. The man she had been having an affair with lives about 2.5 hours further past that, so I was worried he would have travelled to see her. I'm about 90% sure she didn't see the other man, but I can't be 100%. She didn't call much, but lots of posting on social media from the hospital and calls while she was with her family. Didn't seem to be much room to see the other man.
you are wrong about this... there is always time to see the OM/W... believe me... she went there without you and the kids because it was a perfect opportunity to see him/be with him... believe me, they are not going to pass up that golden time together with a built in excuse (being there for the birth of the baby)... you were too chicken to take doodler, Steve85 and joejoe's advice... it was good advice... you have to gather-up your GUTS and do the scary stuff if you want this turn around...
all the social media stuff while she was away was to gaslight you... make you think that she was there for the baby ONLY... she played this perfectly... she didn't even discuss it with you... you found out when your daughter asked what the plans were... you WW is in full control here... the reason you feel as though she is not really trying is because she isn't... she is not in this marriage... she is not committed to you... more on this later...
