Thanks for the kind words Nicole. Yes, I am trying to actively work through my emotions and issues and translate that into action, not just think and analyze it intellectually. It's helped me immensely in my detachment process and also building self-confidence and self-value. By listing all the things I did well in the MR and my life, I was able to balance out the negative stuff and realize that I am just human. I did the best I could in those circumstances, and that this is not all my fault.

Yes, it's good we can text and be civil with each other. Especially in front of the kids, which is the most important thing for me. I am going to catch up on your thread but I know you've moved and getting settled. Congrats on that and I look forward to hearing about your new work and life with your daughter.


No one is coming to save you!