Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts 3

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Do we have some of strange technical issue goign on where I keep seeing empty posts?

After seeing the way she acted yesterday (friendly, but didn't even bring up the MC talk when we walked the dogs together) I think she was just doing a major temp check, and making sure the door was still open.

The weather is crappy today, so she had asked me if she could hang out with the one dog at my place yesterday (and I agreed). I'm sure she thought this would involve spending more time with me. But she also went to a class OM teaches last night - so she has not completely removed him from her life.

I think in light of this, I'll send her a message saying I'll need to run after we take care of our legal stuff this evening, but that she can hang out with the dog at my house.

That was I'm not being rude, or pulling the rug out from under her, but I'm also making it clear that spending time with her isn't a priority. And I don't want to be social, hike, climb etc with her while OM is in her life.