How long do you typically see that Hot/Cold cycle? do you feel like this would also apply during out-of-house separations too? With OM Involved?
Just bringing your question here from reframe's thread so that we can keep continuity on your thread.
I don't think there's a timeline on hot/cold cycle. Yes, it applies to out-of-house separations. My W and I have been separated for almost 10 months and she still goes hot/cold on me. Timeline for that is irrelevant because you figure out how to deal with it - by not giving a $hit and letting it roll off your back. Stop analyzing it. Stop mind-reading. Maybe she's constipated, or maybe she's mad at the neighbor, or maybe she's hangry. Who knows? And more importantly - who cares? I don't mean to say that become callous and mean about this stuff - just become indifferent.
No confirmed OM in my situation, so can't answer that part of your question. But, it doesn't matter - you need to do YOU.
