AS just broke it down with such precision and looks like he was on point.

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Shes either going to grow up like I did or the marriage is going to die.


So, now you know it's about her mostly and very little about you. the question now is - do you want to be with someone who operates with this level of maturity, or do you want a relationship with someone who has a good head on their shoulders and is grown up?

Why are you selling yourself short? You overcame major life challenges man - I am so proud of you. You are a solid catch. Just work on some NGS stuff.

You deserve someone who is mature and smart and doesn't scapegoat you.


No one is coming to save you!