Every time that she initiates an R talk, more and more things are added for reasons that she wants a D. I find myself being blamed for the actions of others, and many times, I question my memory of the events as well. I validate when I can, but still have issue with not becoming defensive when some of it is complete BS. This is an area that I need to work on.

My W tells me that she has never been happy in our M, says that she still loves me, but doesn't want to live with me or be M any longer.

M: 50 W: 47
No kids together
M: 10 T: 11
BD #1: 12/14
R #1: 7/15
BD #2: 1/18
D Filed: 6/18/18
D Final: 01/28/19
Currently still in-house