Advice on my scenario pt. 2

[OrangeK]

I am very immaterial. If it were not for the significant sentimental value of this item i wouldnt bother.

It is the favorite item from childhood of my mothers, that belonged to her first born son, who died at the age of 33.

She never thought she would be a grandparent and had to dig all these old items from the 80's when she found out id be having a child.

She still VERY much struggles with my brothers death, 3.5 years later. (he died 9 days before my son was born too ) and things like this are very important to her.
My son also just happens to be a damn clone of my older brother, so its really tough.