Also, take your time. There is no rush here. She may go back and forth, hot and cold, for a while. The key is that you stay put and straight and engage in self-care. Don't fall for any bait for fights.
Read up on the validation cheat sheet by Wonka. It has been a godsend to me at times.
How long do you typically see that Hot/Cold cycle? do you feel like this would also apply during out-of-house separations too? With OM Involved?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
