There may be too many red flags for you to handle right now. 4 kids at home, medical conditions that cause for social issues....

This is what I was saying, WTF? Men seem to go gaga over these woman who have "baggage" and "issues"

Is it a physical attraction that has you so into her? What is that makes you so interested?

I am curious, trying to figure out the way a guy's mind works, because I have no clue.

Also, How long have you been doing these meet-ups? It's only been a few weeks, right? I mean, how close is this friend really?