Does the WW typically eventually see thorough this "hes trying to buy my love and my sons love" thing?
IDK. In my son's case, the WW was just as bad at bribing the kids as the OM was.
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Also I know my WW, and if i had to guess im willing to bet at the beginning of things with OM she probably told him she was sooooo in love with him and he was "the one" to save her from what i would assume she told him that i was an awful husband and father. She also told her new co workers / friends that I had already filed D way back like a year ago, which was a total lie. How do you backtrack from that as the WW? How do you maintain friendships of people she lied to about me WHEN things with OM fizzle out and shes left with the true exposure of her lies, not only to my family and friends, but when all the lies she told her new social group about me and how our situation developed come out of the woodworks? How does the WW manage the blowback of the re-written history coming to the light of truth?
Some people have been lying their entire lives. Those are the ones who will wiggle around things and act as if it was just some misunderstanding........or no big deal......whatever. While others will avoid the their former friends and in-laws. Sometimes they cause too much damage and they can't face people who know the truth. These are the ones who move away, or make sure they don't end up attending the same event as their old pals. Having just one person as a friend, can give people courage to stand against a crowd.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
