AS,

Just had a chance to fully read and digest this.
Thank you. this type of encouragement is what helps so much when things get dark.
I dwell. Dwelling is an issue i have. Compounded by the total lack of closure, contact or info.

your bible quote actually reminded me of a quote my WW's EX told me when i contacted him to try and understand WTF she was going through in her head, "You cant trip on whats behind you"
and i try to live that.

I am going to literally PRINT what you said in response to me "living in ear of the TRO is lifted and she continues to ghost me"
and put it somewhere i can see it daily. probably in my cubicle at work, where i do most of my negative dwelling lol.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds