Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts 3

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44Tries: yes, absolutely.
My two main concerns here are.

1. is this just major temp checking?

2. If not, I need HER to accept responsibility and make real changes too. I don't want to go through this again, and I don't want to recon only to end up in the same place in a few months or years.

I'm also really enjoying having friends and being less co-dependent. So a new relationship would need to look different.