reframe, I have followed your story and I have to say this seems like a huge turning point! But you are right to not get over-excited. I'm sure you already have, but you should reread the thread about LBS taking their WAS back too easily/quickly. Perhaps it will help you with your next step. It is a long road and you are nowhere near out of the woods, but I would kill for my W to have a similar convo with me. Congrats man and keep your nose to the grindstone, sounds like what you are doing is working .
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018