reframe, I have followed your story and I have to say this seems like a huge turning point! But you are right to not get over-excited. I'm sure you already have, but you should reread the thread about LBS taking their WAS back too easily/quickly. Perhaps it will help you with your next step. It is a long road and you are nowhere near out of the woods, but I would kill for my W to have a similar convo with me. Congrats man and keep your nose to the grindstone, sounds like what you are doing is working smile .


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018