You had mentioned that in your confrontation you were going to explain that her affair is "not going to be tolerated". Im trying to understand what actions you are going to do that will back that stance up.I dont see how living as roommates is showing that you "arent tolerating" her affair. Saying that you arent going to be a part of a three person marriage isnt a great way to evict the affair partner - it's about stepping out of it yourself.
Are you prepared to make that step? Not just emotionally and mentally, but physically and financially...
No, and that's why I've decided not to confront, at least right now. I agree with everyone's feedback, including yours, that until I am ready to walk out the door for good, it won't be much benefit.
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018
