Here I go agreeing with Doodler again but yeah wow. That was exhausting just reading it all. Can't imagine living it. For a minute there it was like a throwback to high school.
To be fair it's hard to get a read on the group dynamic without being there but I can totally see how things could get very messy between friends if the goal is dating or even hooking up. I get a very squeezy feeling just reading about it. "Don't talk to her, I like her."
I'd be guessing if I gave any detailed thoughts.
You just seem to be getting really invested really soon and then expecting certain behavior right out of the gate. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve. It's just a date - or at least should be at this point. Makes me wonder if you're ready for it all?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
