link to previous thread:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2784576&page=11

So, today I had this conversation with the wife:

Her:
I don't want to give you false hope or mess with your head. And I am a hot mess for sure and am really trying to figure out my [censored]. But I've been thinking a lot and I've wondered a lot if therapy is still on the table?

I guess you didn't see that coming... Sorry

Me:
I'm willing to consider it. We've had a lot of really good times and connections together, but we also have a lot of baggage.

You not being involved with another man would be a prerequisite for us going to therapy.

Her:
I thought that was a given.

Me:
communication is important, so I wasn't assuming anything was a given

Her:
Fair

At that point I excused myself and said I had to go, and that we'd talk later.
Not sure how to move forward with it at this point.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18