I appreciate the enthusiasm Steve LOL! My take is this, she is beginning to ponder possible R but she wants to re-establish that original bond of friendship we had the first time around...the foundation as she once called it. That's what's happening now. She's most definitely decided she wants me in her life on a pretty consistent basis. She's more than made that clear this far. She's certainly not going out of her way to avoid me at all costs. So I am just taking it as it comes. But my feeling is it's inevitable R talk will come to the surface soon. I could be wrong...just my gut feeling knowing ther M.O. like I do.
P.S.-Oh and one tell-tale thing I forgot to mention.. She started using my full first name again in person and in text. This is significant because once we separated 4 years ago she started calling me by the name everyone else calls me. Like whenever she talked to me I was suddenly called a different name. Well she's back to my full name again. Significant? Maybe...we'll see... the adventure continues.
It is little things like that that mean more than most people know. I know a lot of the things that started giving me hope was the little things my W started doing again that she had stopped doing. One of those was texting and calling me throughout the day just to tell me something (which is one of the things I started doing based on the other anti-divorce program). Still waiting for a couple of big things to return, but I always have to remind myself that we are only 4 months in. I am impatient by nature.
But yeah, I would say a change like that is very significant.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
