Forgot to add--I have read a lot of posts from you about how you have never seen a successful in-house separation. I agree, it's a less than ideal situation. But it's pretty discouraging to hear that and I'm not sure what to do about it.

I am starting to get a little ahead of myself and go down the over-analyzing tunnel. This week I am going to try to post more on my GAL and me stuff. Weekends are always sort of a vortex sucking me in because W is home and we spend more time together.

M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018