Update on my issue - I had a session with a sex therapist. He mentioned that rapid ejaculation issue that I have is curable however requires that my wife also be present. Unfortunately i am in No contact with my wife and calling her for a session now is somewhat like pursuing her. So i am planning to do it alone. Since my wife bought dilators, the doctor is suspecting it to br vaginismus. No wonder why i was finding it hard to penetrate her. It was a like brick wall. I could hardly have an open dialogue with my wife as well since even she is quite shy. The doc even sent me a case study of how a couple with vaginismus who never consummated marraige for 7 years were cured. According to him in my case i have been able to consummate in a way.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)