You dont know what this is yet so no use in panicking.
Don't try to analyze your ex. Most of us here do that. All you end up doing is projecting your own feelings and values on to them.
I know it's early in your sitch to hear this but most of them are selfish pos and are not thinking the things we like to think they are... I have female aquaintances that are walkaways. Trust me. If only you knew what they say and think.
Just take it day by day and develop a back up plan. Research some good lawyers just in case.
