Sandi,

I dont ask about W with MIL at swaps.
I just discuss our son, say "Have a great day" and thats about it.

thanks for the support. I do use the forum as a way to come here and vent so i dont send some errant text to W.

As far as she knows im happy and doing my own thing.


But, yes. It is quite maddening. I have a rough time mentally compartmentalizing.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds