Blu!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and perspectives. I have always immensely appreciated reading about your journey and it has helped me a lot mentally and emotionally. I am by no means a vet, so I will leave your query to them, but I do feel a bit impatient with the hopelessness and wanting to turn things around quickly on the newcomers board. Well, I was kinda like that at some point, so it's hard for me to judge them. But, I know what you're saying.

Storm - so good to see you back. I wholeheartedly agree with Blu about continuing to share your story. I learned so much reading your story and that piecing is no walk in the park. No joke! Gave me good perspective, which I think is invaluable to the newcomers who are just trying to get their spouses back, not realizing that the journey after that is tough and brutal too.

Thanks to both of you for sharing.


No one is coming to save you!