Thanks Orange. Thats pretty much the plan for now. I dont think this time is easier, but I feel like I know what to expect a bit more so hopefully that helps. The big difference is I'm home this time, last time I was overseas. That and the fact that she actually moved her stuff out.
One of my big concerns is her friends. I know theyre decent people and theyre just trying to help her because they care but I'm worried they wont allow her to reach out to me. Ive got a pretty good relationship with one of them, I was thinkig of reaching out to him or his wife, letting them know I respect her decision, want to give her her space and she can contact me when shes ready. I dont know how that will work out though. I'm concerned about them filling her head with "see how little he cares about you, hes not even trying to get you back" type stuff. Espicially if shes complaining to them about not getting enough attention and support ya know?
