I should really get back on track with my own sitch, but I had the mods delete my "Piecing" threads a few months ago. A part of me just thinks I'm being phony anymore. Maybe I'll create a new one again, I dunno.
Anyway, I know what you mean about those memories. I think we discussed this one time, when I look at pics in the past, I now think, "was she cheating on me back then?" Everything in the past now seems distorted and questioned.
Perspective. Great word.
You're lucky in that you can text him and tell him how sad you are. If I even remotely mention ANYTHING about the affair, I get a flurry of anger, damning me and wanting to know why I'm still living in the past.
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
