Responsibility, Logic & Underreacting

[psluke]

Hi Cal,

I thougt about that, but he doesn't come and visit now, so it sort of didn't make sense he would want to come and visit me after the D is final.

I don't think I am just thinking negative here, but since I tend to I might be. But I tried to look at it logically.

[Phoenix_In_Bloom]

Pam,

I know that actions speak louder than words...but he does seem to be saying that he wants to come over and visit you.

And leaving his dog with you seems to be a good excuse to do that.

I'm thinking that maybe he is one of those people who NEED to have a divorce before they can move on and heal the relationship.

I know it makes no sense. We need to focus on what you CAN control.

So, do you have any goals for this coming week?

Hugs!

[psluke]

Hi PIB,

I asked for the dog in one of my e-mails. I said the kids are a family and they should stay together.

So I figured that was why he was leaving the dog. Plus IF he is going to get together with J she won't want a sheltie, it would shed a lot more than her poodles do.

My goals this week:

Control my emotions.

Try to help friend tonight.

Work today and tomorrow all day.

Don't go off the deep end on Wednesday.

[psluke]

And maybe I'm also just afraid to think it might be that he would want to see me also.