What if you stopped worrying so much about what you say and focus more on saying those sentiments with your actions?
O, I absolutely agree. I wasn't meaning I wanted to say those things. I was referring to the actions I would take that would 'say' those things. Actions that say I want nothing to do with you, basically. If she doesn't know I know she is cheating, taking actions that send that strong of a message will seem unwarranted. That's what I was asking about.
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018