Hey there Steve! Yeah I have to say I was absolutely blown away when she showed up at my work last night! Of course I played it off as no big deal. I am doing exactly that...just not letting her know if I would want R or not. The subject hadn't really come up so I am just taking this as it comes. But yes, even my skeptical nature is at odds with her showing up at my work...it sure is hard to not take that as a very obvious sign of her persuing me. Her interest in the outcome with Mary is also a sign to me...like she wants to see if Mary and I are going to reconcile. So who knows what comes next but this is just crazy that after 4 years since my intense heartbreak that this is all happening so fast now. We'll see where it goes and yes my friend, I will most definitely keep you all posted.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14