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She abandons the dog, and then wants to claim ownership?!? ROFL This girl is really deep into her fantasy fog. Were you tempted to text her back "Kick rocks." To the suggestion she keep Dog 1 full time? Also, is that even fair to dog 2? I know my dogs are buddies.


I was VERY tempted. But I resisted the urge to take the bait. I did say:
"You moved to a situation where you couldn't take them, and now you're getting upset with me for having them.

I am happy to work out a schedule where you take them more.

I was also a bit concerned about <dog2> being left along, but we can figure something out"

That's as confrontational as I got.
I'm honestly not sure she's equipped to handle them right now, but that's a natural consequence.

We worked out something where we each have BOTH dogs two days a week, then we each have the other the rest of the time.

So the dogs will only be apparent 2 days a week, and we'll only each be without a dog 2 days a week. Seems like a reasonable place to start...


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18