Originally Posted By: ItHurts
Hi Guys! Well the meeting went very, very well. We had a genuine ggood time and lots of laughs. There was some talk of our marriage and what we both I'd wrong but it was a very pleasant conversation. She did seem very interested in what she called " the string of women you've ripped through" in the past 4 years. She also was asking about Mary as well. She saw me get a text from Mary come in while my phone was on the table so she asked about that. But other than that it was a really nice light-hearted visit. We did laugh a lot over some memories quite a bit through the night... sometimes to the point of tears LOL! She remembered things I'd forgotten and vice versa. I wanted to be the one to end the night so I said I should go and it is getting late after about three hours. She had baked me some bananna bread and sent me home with some. So this was on Tuesday night. I figured it would be a couple weeks again before we'd chat or hang out until last night she stunned me and showed up at my work. I was well and truly shocked to see her standing there as it was a vision I'd had for 4 years and couldn't believe it was actually happening. We talked for a few minutes. She again asked how things went with Mary because she knew I had to go over there to get the rest of my things. I was vague and just left my answer as Mary and I had a good talk. Then she left. So that was pretty shocking. That was last night at work so who knows what happenals next but I played it super duper cool during both encounters. I find myself feeling like she is finding herself wanting to be with me more but I am just playing it cool for now. I'm feeling somewhat pursued by her and I want to see where that goes. But for now we've had three very pleasant encounters in just a month's time.
Of course I will keep you all posted on any new developments. I hope everyone is well.


WOW! ItHurts, the showing up at work thing is incredible! That is no question her pursuing you. No doubt about it. As long as you play it cool, walk the line between interest and aloofness, I think you are in. If you want to be and it sounds like you do.

If you two get back together please keep this forum updated! I have been using your sitch as an example of why you NEVER give up.


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