Yes - I'd like to post the rest of the convo here. But it contains a little too much personally identifiable information and it's long.

She was definitely trying to provoke me though. I managed to avoid taking any emotional bait, and defuse the confrontation. Although I did call her on her BS once - got it back to the business at hand and worked out a schedule that seems reasonable.

She also found reason to send me a chat message a few hours later. (that's 4 or 5 times she contacted me yesterday).

I'll be honest, the pursuit from her feels kind of good - but it's a long way from her doing the work that would be required to have any real hope at recon. I have trouble imagining what it would take to reconnect and TRUST that this wouldn't happen again in a year at this point - given how immature she's acted. But, I hear it does happen sometimes.

I may not be over her yet (by a long shot if I'm honest) but I'm starting to feel like I AM over dealing with her crap.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18