Originally Posted By: reframe
IT just keeps getting better.
She seems to keep finding reasons to contact me.

I got a message a few minutes ago about how she would "like to work out a schedule for the dogs, because she misses the one (that she can't leave alone at the room she is renting).

Me: "OK, I like having him all the time, but we can work something out, what do you have in mind?"

W: Right now he can't but he's still half my dog. I feel like you've just taken ownership of them and I'm the weekend dad. I'm not okay with that

(so she moved out where she couldn't take the dogs, basically abandoned one of them, then she blames me for "taking ownership of them...awesome". I decided not to engage the BS and stick to business)

Me:
OK, What do you have in mind?

W: Either switching weeks or weekends with certain days during the week? I'm open to ideas.
I mean if you want dog 2 all the time, I'll take dog 1 all the time and we can each have a day or two with both each week

Me:
I'm open to ideas too.
just wasn't sure how stitch would work with your living arrangements


(we're negotiating now - I'm just in disbelieve that she basically abandoned the dogs and is now getting upset with me for having them)




She abandons the dog, and then wants to claim ownership?!? ROFL This girl is really deep into her fantasy fog. Were you tempted to text her back "Kick rocks." To the suggestion she keep Dog 1 full time? Also, is that even fair to dog 2? I know my dogs are buddies.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018