and as for x and me, the "reframing" (ie denial I was in) best laugh was either
"couples have differences, yin and yang, that counter balance each other...
Like I have a really bad sense of direction....(pause) whereas HE is a pathological liar, so...
there's that."
And jokes about how I "reframed"
--- "when he would hide rice and pasta and gluten products on the top shelf where I couldn't see or get them -
I'd REFRAME it so that he was just protecting me from the celiac disease ...which, guess what,
I NEVER HAD! So, there...
AND ...he taught me to jump!...
you wouldn't know it to look at me, but after 30 plus years, I can jump really high, for gluten. Turns out, I like spaghetti."
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
