Hi everyone, thank you for the replies, I appreciate it. I have a headache I'm trying to shake right now so I'll get into details later but I'm confused on how to do the detached thing. We still live in the house together but should I be avoiding him or just being cordial yet distant. He came home and told me about his day and we're all in the living room together but I'm at a loss as to what to do really. I'm going to the bookstore to look for the recommended reading above to help me, but right now I'm just having a low day.
The best advice on this is from Sandi: treat him like you would treat a cashier at the store. You'd be polite, listen but wouldn't be overly sharing and open with them. Read Cadets link on detachment. Most of us misunderstand in the beginning.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
