Hi everyone, thank you for the replies, I appreciate it. I have a headache I'm trying to shake right now so I'll get into details later but I'm confused on how to do the detached thing. We still live in the house together but should I be avoiding him or just being cordial yet distant. He came home and told me about his day and we're all in the living room together but I'm at a loss as to what to do really. I'm going to the bookstore to look for the recommended reading above to help me, but right now I'm just having a low day.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019