Good point and I'm not a big drinker anymore anyway. Last night it led to a bit of a text tirade after her disrespect.

BTW, this morning she apologized in person. (why couldn't she have done it immediately last night?)
I accepted.

I've been thinking about establishing some boundaries. She said that that disrespectful statement just kinda "leaked out". I guess that's why I'd never heard anything like that before. When you can't communicate like an adult and you can't own your mistakes, you don't get to excuses your leaky statements.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.